As a parent, you know your child’s personality, strengths, and struggles better than anyone. You notice when something seems “off” — whether it’s changes in mood, ongoing difficulties in learning, or challenges in social situations. When these concerns arise, it can be tempting to wait and see if things improve.

However, I often meet families whose children only receive a diagnosis much later, sometimes at 9 years old or beyond. In many of these cases, parents had early concerns but decided not to consult a professional because their child could still cope in certain areas. Over time, different challenges appeared — more frequently and with greater impact — leaving parents feeling tired, confused, and unsure why their child was having more difficulties than other children.

Why early assessment by psychologist is matters

Without early identification, small challenges can grow into more complex issues that affect emotional wellbeing, relationships, and school performance. By the later primary school years, some children who were once manageable may develop:

• Ongoing emotional struggles
• School refusal
• Withdrawal from friends and activities
• Frequent conflicts with peers
• Breaking school rules or defying authority

At this stage, it becomes far more challenging for therapists to address the underlying causes, and progress can take longer.

A real-life example

A young boy showed signs of speech delay, slower learning, and difficulty joining group activities from a young age. Still, he could read, write, and count, and his parents and teachers managed his occasional emotional outbursts without major disruption.

When he entered primary school, the situation changed. By age 9, he refused to attend school, saying teachers disliked him and classmates hated him. He insisted on being home-schooled and refused to leave the house. After months of struggle, his parents finally sought professional help. A thorough assessment by psychologist revealed that he had mild autism and ADHD.

With this information, the family finally understood his needs — but they also realised that, had the assessment been done earlier, many of these later struggles could have been avoided or reduced.

The benefits of a Assessment by Psychologist

Seeking professional assessment as soon as concerns arise can:

• Provide a clear understanding of your child’s strengths and challenges
• Allow therapists to design targeted support plans
• Prevent minor issues from becoming major problems
• Help parents and teachers work together effectively
• Reduce emotional stress for the child and the family

Parents may still encounter challenges over time — that’s part of raising any child — but early action helps prevent bigger, harder-to-solve problems later.

Final thoughts

If you have concerns about your child’s emotions, behaviour, learning, or social skills, don’t wait for the problems to “fix themselves.” A timely Assessment by psychologist or others professional can be the turning point in helping your child thrive. Early action isn’t about labelling — it’s about understanding, supporting, and giving your child the best chance for a happier, more confident future.

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